By Christian Gollayan. April 12, pm Updated July 26, pm. He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid. A multipart study from Harvard University, University of La Verne and Santa Clara University researchers found that beautiful people are more likely to be involved in unstable relationships. In one part, the researchers looked at the top 20 actresses on IMDb and found that they tend to have rocky marriages. In another, women were asked to judge the attractiveness of men based on their high school yearbook photos from 30 years ago.
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In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. Most people assume that the dude just has tons of money, and that might be true, but a lot of times cash has absolutely nothing to do with it. First of all, good looks are subjective. I usually check out the table of homies laughing and having a really good time or the crispy dude wearing the buttery new Wallabees.
In our culture, women receive many messages that can eat away at their self-esteem. For example, self-worth equals youth and beauty. Perfection in all areas of life — professional and personal — is not only achievable, but expected. The expectation they take away is that not only must they look their best, but they must also be noticed and popular, all while achieving high grades and earning recognition and awards in sports or other extracurricular activities, Choate explains.
It is a harsh world that we live in. The media is by far the biggest and baddest critic of women and you will be shocked at the impossible standards that society has set when it comes to the ideal woman. Women are inundated with wave after wave of flawless beauty every minute of every day. It comes as no surprise that many women suffer from insecurities and possess low self-confidence.