Here's how to inoculate ourselves against negative ones. Verified by Psychology Today. Strictly Casual. Sadly, published academic research on this topic is quite limited. The anonymous online survey asked students about three aspects of threesome-related thoughts and behaviors: attitudes; interests; and past experiences, in all cases focusing on mixed- gender threesomes i.
I would be lying if I said my own personal interest hadn't picked up over the last few years, having briefly flirted with the idea of a threesome with my girlfriend and a mutual friend of ours whilst drunk in an Uber. It makes one wonder: If you need three legs to make a table stand up, does this mean you need three mouths to make a relationship go smoothly? In the interests of science is it science? So I approached four couples who all have thirds in various capacities to gain insights from their adventures.
There are very rarely any plans for a relationship with all three people involved, and so everything feels more like an anything-goes, cotton-candy-filled, judgment-free trip to sexual Disneyland rather than a bad-time, purpose-filled, calorie-counting trip to sexual Weight Watchers. The only measuring happening in a three-way is who lasted longer and by how much. The subject of three-ways first came up with my now-husband Pat Dixon after a few months of dating, as we were strolling along the beach and comparing our numbers, which ran almost neck and neck. I had a three-way with my long-term, multi-year boyfriend. I had a three-way with my roommate.
Woman A: Twenty-six. Woman B: Twenty-two. Woman A: Twenty-five. Woman B: Nineteen. Woman A: No, I was not in a relationship.