Not to be dramatic or anything but as a lesbian what saved my life was realizing that attraction is supposed to feel good. This needs to be read by lesbians, bisexual and straight women. Attraction is supposed to be a good thing. I love u. Hey so thankfully our food stamps hit today and we have food in the house! However food stamps only buy food products so we could use some money for things like paper towels, toilet paper, cleaning sprays, laundry detergent.
While my friends lapped that stuff up, I just wanted to spit it out. What I actually wanted to do was admit to myself who I really was. I was suffocating under the pressure I put on myself. For almost 10 years, I oscillated wildly between confusion and fear in regards to my sexuality, wrapping myself in lies as I went along.
No man will receive my culinary affection, unless I specifically invite him over for a single meal. No man will spend the night in my warm nest. All of the expected performances will be heaped on, instead, a person who is also expected to conform to the same expectations.