It's easy to see how sending racy text messages can heat up a sex life, but not everyone takes advantage of the turn-on: Married couples do sext, but not nearly as much as younger lovebirds, according to a new study in Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking. The issue: Marrieds may view sexting as something people do when they're insecure in their relationships, the researchers venture. And this couldn't be further from the truth, says clinical sexologist Gloria Brame, Ph. Engaging in the exhilaration can do wonders for your post-nuptial nookie. Think of sexting as a private love game—a constant tease that keeps you intrigued and engaged with true love, she suggests. So how do you go about playing?
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My husband and I have been together for almost nine years. We only text in grunts and the occasional picture of a capybara sitting on top of another capybara. You could scroll through miles and miles of our texts and you'd probably think we were just two drunk strangers who found phones on the ground and started texting unintelligible garbage at each other — "imhere," and "fart noise" are regulars on the rotation. But we've always enjoyed a healthy sex life. In fact, we fucked our way through Fifty Shades , so please never, ever question our commitment to boning!
What was the last text you sent your spouse? It may be time to get your mind out of your to-do list and into the gutter. As an out-and-proud sexter, I was curious whether others in my circle had the same penchant for swapping sexy texts with their partners. A much more formal study, published in the journal Computers in Human Behavior , found that 75 percent of young adults claimed to have engaged in sexting in general, while 62 percent said they had sent or received a sexually-explicit picture message. Half of sexters report that it positively influences their sexual and emotional relationships with a partner.
Modern technology has benefitted many relationships in recent years, in the form of sexting and video calls while you're separated. And if you're looking to give your sex life an added boost , your smartphone can be a handy gadget too. Men are visual creatures so photos work best if you want to get his mojo going.