Yes, she's really bisexual. You wouldn't keep asking a straight woman you were dating if she was "really" straight, right? Yeah, it's just as weird for you to do that to a bisexual woman. And on top of annoying questions, she likely experiences a unique form of identity erasure.
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In reality, only Also, sex is fun, and having fun with your partner is always a good idea! But damn, ladies, the odds are really stacked against us! Lesbian sex can absolutely be brief as well, but it usually tends not to be.
This piece was originally published at TheLStop. Within every lesbian community there exists a tale as old as time, a proverb as common as it is contentious: Bi women cheat, betray, and ultimately leave — never for another woman, but for a man. Like those who flee the tumults of city life for quieter and less complicated pastures, bisexual women may seem destined, in the eyes of gay women, to trade the grit and hardships of queer life for the suburbs of heteroville. But is this really because we prefer a life of white-picket simplicity and comfort? Or could it be that, when it comes to romance between queer women, the game has been rigged from the start?
I'm a bisexual in a lesbian relationship and was totally shocked to read how rare that is. According to Kristina Marusic at Slate: "The massive Pew Research LGBT Survey found 84 percent of self-identified bisexuals in committed relationships have a partner of the opposite sex, while only nine percent are in same-sex relationships. I'm not arguing with the numbers, I'm just surprised the numbers are so I assumed that, just based on how many people identify as straight, you would find the majority of bisexuals in straight relationships, but with a whopping 84 percent of them — it just seems too big of a percentage to be just that.